August 2010  --  The Elephant in the Room is Finally Recognized, Now What?

I have a hard time remembering all of the details, but I do remember that my wife and I were out and we got calls on both of our cellphones from the police department.  They had our son at the police station and we needed to go in.  We immediately went to the police station.  Along with some friends, they had been bouncing golf balls over an overpass and had hit a car.  Luckily no damage occurred but during the arrest they found cigarettes, a lighter, and a recipe for opium in our son's possession.  I was irate.  By this time, I had bought a home drug test already.  I gave him the test and he failed for both Opiates and Cannabis.  He told us that he had been smoking marijuana on a regular basis but had not done any opiates.  I told him that was hard to believe since he had the opiate recipe in his pocket.